When fear hits you remember the words of Marianne Williamson.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,” Williamson writes in A Return to Love.
“Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.”
What are you waiting for?
I’m talking about the sense of rising energy and excitement that so many people seem to be experiencing these days…
It feels like the world is waking up from a long hibernation, eyes blinking as we adjust to the brightness of new life bursting with promise and potential.
We’re entering into a period of tremendous growth and transformation that will bring a lot of exciting opportunities – and unforeseen challenges as well.
So, how can you harness this surge of energy and use it to propel your life forward – without getting distracted or overwhelmed by all of the events, opportunities, or obstacles that will soon be appearing on your path?
YOU’VE GOT TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
- To achieve your big goals and thrive in the exciting times ahead, you’ve got to have:
- A clear vision of what you want your life to look like
- A strong sense of purpose to keep you motivated and focused on your goals
- A detailed roadmap to show you the path forward
- Unshakeable confidence in yourself
… and unstoppable drive and energy to keep you moving forward no matter what obstacles appear on your journey.
And that is EXACTLY what I can help you achieve during my Create your future virtual event happening this May
JOIN ME FOR A POWERFUL 6 WEEKS OF GOAL-SETTING & GROWTH
During our six game-changing days together, I will help you create your ideal life vision and remove whatever challenges or obstacles have been preventing you from achieving your biggest goals in life.
You will learn how to:
- Take 100% control over your life – no matter what’s happening in the world
- Get clear on what you truly want – and how to achieve it
- Create a master plan for the fulfilment of your vision
- Align your work with your purpose and passions – and experience more meaning and fulfilment in everything you do
- Release the brakes that have been holding you back from creating bigger and better results
- Overcome any obstacles or challenges in your path
- Develop an action-oriented mindset that will clear your path to success
- Create a life that gives you great joy and abundance
- Become the person you were always meant to be!
And if you book your spot now, you can save 50% on your registration by completing the contact form and then I will send you a discount code!
So if you’re eager to launch yourself into the months ahead with a clear plan and the tools you need to accomplish more than you thought possible, be sure to join me for this powerful event!
Better act fast, though – our special early bird rates are vanishing soon.
Hope to see you there!
To your success,
Every day events happen in your life
…and I want to share with you a story that changed by life in a big way because of life coaching.
The story directly relates to a formula we use as Jack Canfield Trainers in the Success Principles and it’s called E + R = O. This stands for Event + Your Response = Outcome you get.
We respond to the events in our lives in different ways.
Right now, those events could be:
- overcoming the Monday morning blues.
- feeling you’ve lost your way a bit
- building confidence.
- finding a job or career that you love.
- getting clear on your goals.
- staying accountable to your goals.
- doing more of the activities that engage you.
- forming better relationships.
- having more meaning in your life.
At the age of 38 several events happened:
- I got divorced
- I had to go back to work full-time to keep my son and I in a house and fed.
- I had to move house and downsize, get a mortgage and set up home again.
- My 4 year old was diagnosed with Autism and was expelled from school
- My Dad died all in the same year and I wasn’t there for him or my mother.
- I got made redundant 4 times
I responded (R) to all those events by remaining bewildered, sad, and confused and I remember crying a lot at the top of the stairs and in people’s offices and thinking “Why is this happening to me?”
The outcome (O) was an inability to move forward with my life for over two years.
So, having studied the Success Principles™ for some years it dawned on me that I wasn’t taking 100% responsibility for my life and I was responding to the events in my life in a negative way. I was blaming and complaining to people who didn’t care.
My responses to the events in my life just facilitated sadness, and pain.
Then it dawned upon me that I was the one who was responsible for my future success so I made a plan, set myself some goals and created a vision board.
I decided to go back to owning my own business again.
I am now feel confident, grateful and thankful that I have found my way back and am back in control of my life fulfilling my passion to help other people find their way in life. I became a Jack Canfield Certified Trainer in the Success Principles™ and am a dedicated trainer in this amazing method of coaching.
If you’ve got stuff going on in your life you’d like to deal with I’m going to start a 6-week course in May to help you move forward. If you’re interested drop me a message to go on the waiting list.
People in networking meetings usually ask me “So, what do you do?”
My response is to say – I help my clients find the life and career they will love! Over 70% of the clients I’ve worked with had no idea what they wanted from life which is fine if you’re not bothered. It’s one reason you should not hire a life coach.
However, if you do want to know ‘what’s next in your life’ there has never been a better time to get some coaching either 1-1 or as part of a community of likeminded people.
The next question I get asked is “How to you do that?”
My response is that my job is to help them to examine what’s currently keeping them up at night. Here’s some examples.
Different generations worry about different things so as we progress through life the anxiety and stresses change which is completely normal.
Last week I helped a lady in her 20’s explore and discover what she wanted from life and now she is following her passion and moving to her dream job in Europe.
A man in his 30’s was worried about not having achieved anything yet. He went onto create of vision board with my help and now has a focus for the future and a plan to get there.
The Success Principles methodology has worked for decades but you might not have heard of it because its unique to Jack Canfield Certified Trainers. I use proven success principles to guide clients through a transition from feeling worried and stressed to finding their passion, clarity and a road map for their future which transforms their self-confidence.
I won’t just tell you about these success principles…I will show you how to implement them into your life. Your invited to my next live on-line meet up. It’s FREE and lasts about 30 minutes. Drop me your details in the contact form and I’ll send you the Zoom meeting details. Please feel free to invite a friend as well.
Early this year I ran an event for the Junior Chamber International which of course needed to be on-line via Zoom because of Covid. The workshop was called “Putting your world back together using The Success Principles™”.
All my workshops are interactive and engaging and this one was no different and it was a huge pleasure to be working with JCI members again.
We did some practical, and inspiring exercises using two of The Success Principles I use as a Certified Jack Canfield Trainer.
The first Success Principle is called Take 100% responsibility for your life. The principle is about seeing how we are creating what we are experiencing through our thoughts, images. and behaviours. You’ll find the exercise really thought provoking both for yourself and others around you.
The second Success Principle we used is called “Decide what you want”. One of the easiest ways to start clarifying what you really want is to make a list of things you want to do, things you want to have and things you want to be before you die. This is a great way to get the ball rolling.
The lessons we all learnt from these exercises to is that to make progress in our lives we have to visualize clearly on our future wants and desires.
Here’s what Michael Rothon – JCI Southampton Local President said after the event:
“Lesley is a fantastic trainer, with endless enthusiasm for the effect that success principles can have in our lives. Her skill as a senior lecturer clearly shows with her storytelling techniques to deliver insightful and engaging training. I would 100% invite Lesley back to train for us again and recommend her to others! “
So, I’m asking you now “What you want to do, what you want to be, and what you want to have?”
If you don’t know why not come along to my free workshop starting soon. Take 45 minutes out of your day for you! Sign up on the contact form below quoting “I’m in” in the message tab.
If you’re feeling anxious or stressed the chances are that you need to make some changes to your life.
BUT…what should you do?
The first step is decide what you want to change and then you just need to start and work towards it…
Even a small step towards your goals, is a step in the right direction.
What’s stopping you from starting?
Drop me a message and let me know.
I’m going to be starting some life coaching meet ups soon so why not join me?
The first one is called “What do you want?” So what do you want?
Use the contact form below to get going with the message “I’m in to find out what I want”.