Hi, Yesterday I posted Success Principle #1 called: Take 100% responsibility for your life. Today I want to pop on and continue the conversation with you with a formula called E + R = O. What this means is that for every outcome you experience in life is a result of how you’ve responded to an earlier event or events in your life. If you don’t like the outcomes you’re currently getting, there are two basic choices you can make:
- You can blame the event (E) for your lack of results (O). In other words, you can blame the economy, the weather, your spouse, your boss, your co-workers and so on.
- You can instead simply change your responses (R) to the events (E) – the way things are – until you get the outcomes (O) you want. You can change your thinking, change your communication, change the pictures you hold in your head and you can change your behaviour. All this leads to a new outcome.
If you don’t want to change your responses it’s likely to be because of fear, self-doubt and old narratives – can you relate to that?
Personally, I’ve been there, done that and probably got a T shirt somewhere so I understand how you feel. I learnt to overcome negative responses and that’s why I want to share and help you now as a Certified Jack Canfield Trainer in The Success Principles™.
Please click in the comments box below and let know if this resonates with you.